Book Recommendations

  1. It’s Okay Not To Share

It’s Okay Not To Share

It’s OK Not to Share shines the light on commonly accepted practices and flips them upside down. You’ll discover how to help your child develop generosity — by not forcing her to share. How to help your child find friends — by not making her play with everyone. How to practice kindness — by not saying sorry. And how to teach literacy in unlikely ways — say, during a temper tantrum.

It’s a celebration of play, but not a free-for-all. Learn how to set the right limits and accept all feelings. Solidly based in child development, this book is a critical guide for young children and the adults who love them.”

29 Renegade topics include:

  • Coping with wild emotions
  • Rough-and-tumble play
  • Sharing and long turns
  • Creativity and free play
  • Sibling jealousy
  • Action, power and weapon play
  • Social rejection and friendship skills

(Shumaker, Heather. It’s OK Not to Share and Other Renegade Rules for Raising Competent and Compassionate Kids. Penguin, 2012. ISBN 9781585429363.)